A single e-mail is good for nothing

I frequently experience that a manager is awfully surprised when his people fail to deliver what he expects from them in the way he prefers, no matter if they belong to his own team, they are peer managers, project team members or colleagues from other departments.
Things do not materialize, despite the fact that the manager had clearly explained in an email message whatever he wanted. Recently a middle manager told me that his colleagues across the organization don’t pay sufficient attention to one of his projects. As he is not the direct boss of any of them, he feels that he has no power to influence their attitude or behaviour. I asked how he had communicated with them so far. It turned out that he had sent out a long explanatory email and informed their line managers of his project. Well, I told him, this is not too much. On one hand, people get tons of emails a day, on the other hand, they tend to skip the long ones. Line managers may or may not share the information they had been provided. Some regard your project as a priority, some don’t. He didn’t need any more questions from my side to conclude: “Should I talk to the directly?” “Well, that would probably help” – I replied. When we need someone to cooperate on an important task that requires significant effort, it is worth investing more energy into communication than just sending a single email. The best option is talking to them in person, but if it is not feasible, a phone or Skype call will do. It is far more likely to get things done if our partners understand the “why”: the background and importance of the task at hand. Verbal communication makes it possible to ask questions and clarification, sharing dilemmas and issues. It is very useful to understand these at the outset, instead of trying to figure out why things never got done after the missed deadline. In case of longer projects, it makes a lot of sense to do follow-up communication to see how things are proceeding and if any assistance is necessary from your side. You will experience that investing more attention and action into communication with your partners always pays off.

Act2Manage Application

An interactive, gamification-based, practice-oriented leadership development application that provides immediate help and enables follow-up to the most common dilemmas.

Get info and request a free trial!

More blog posts:

What’s wrong with a “bring the solution, not the problem” attitude?

It is quite understandable that we don’t want our colleagues to keep complaining to us about problems and not take responsibility for the solution. But if we expect them to come to us only when they have the solution as well, they may be afraid to tell us and withhold problems that we should be aware of. Fortunately, it’s not that difficult to avoid the constant whining by creating a safe environment for colleagues to feel free to tell us their problems and bad news:

Read more »

Minden nagyszerű dolog tákolással indul, csak nem ott fejeződik be

Megfigyelésem szerint van néhány igen elterjedt gyakorlat és tévhit, ami megakadályozza az embereket abban, hogy nagyszerű dolgokat hozzanak létre. Az egyik ilyen az igénytelenség, melynek megnyilvánulásaként még azokat az egyszerű feladatokat is szarul végzik el, amit nem sokkal több erőfeszítéssel vagy gondolkodással egészen jól meg lehetne csinálni. Mindenki találkozott már a “jóvanazúgy” jelenség tipikus megnyilvánulásaival. Ennek a skálának a másik pólusán helyezkedik el az az attitűd, hogy rögtön világszínvonalút szeretnénk létrehozni, az viszont sajnos nemigen reális. Azok, akik erre képessé váltak, legyen szó technológiáról, üzletről, sportról vagy művészetekről, évtized(ek)ben mérhető gyakorlással, kísérletezéssel, közbülső mérföldkövekkel, irányváltásokkal, újbóli nekifutásokkal, kapcsolatok építésével, szerencsés eseményekkel (amiket persze részben maguk tettek lehetővé) és kitartó munkálkodással jutottak el odáig. Csak erről nem mindig szól a fáma, illetve nem látszik, mi van a jéghegy csúcsa alatt.

Read more »

Why is there little learning when coaching others?

Listening is a very powerful tool for a good manager. A good coach does not give advice, only asks questions. Coaching mindset, operating with questions, is essential to be a successful manager. All sound pretty good, in theory, but I don’t share that view honestly. I do agree that it is very annoying to be an asshole who has answers for all the questions, even to those ones that have not been raised. On the other hand, going by questions alone leaves little room to develop others. Let’s think about it…

Read more »